What is the essence of the feminine?
We have been encouraged to be strong, independent and to ‘do anything a man can do.’ And yet women are not men and we both have our own essence. This blog discusses what is the true essence of the female.
When a woman is out of balance she can easily become too needy and too independent. So what would be a good start is to aim to sit somewhere comfortably in between this.
The females on this planet have closed themselves down. We have lived with abuse, persecution and to be there to please our partners and this has shut us down over time. It is now time to open.
It is time to rise from our softness, our flow, our sensuality and our radiance and this is what pulls our men to us most. This is the polarity of the female to be able to attract her mate of her choosing, with her presence and sensitivity.
This magnetism lives inside of us all and I have been at weekends where women come together and they start to radiate this magnetism, a new beauty becomes alive, so alive. You see a new part of these women that is absolutely gorgeous. They light right up.
A woman lights up from the inside, she becomes confident, grounded, receptive, sensual and this makes her very attractive to the men in her world.
A woman’s power centre resides in her sacral space or her womb space. This is the space to bring your awareness to. When we are in this space fear and doubt leave us alone. This sexual centre is also her creative centre and it allows her inner power to start to flourish and shine.
This would make so much sense that our feminine power is rising, after all, the planet needs the healing presence of the female. The earth needs purifying, cleansing and healing and we are the right people to easily do this.
I am sure that there is a part of you that yearns to be ravished, to be admired, witnessed and cherished. We have to start to learn to alight these centres within us, using regular practises. Once they become grounded, then they will radiate out to all parts of your world.
We do not have to compromise. We can choose to express ourselves sexually, creatively and with grace. Sure we have a shadow side to us, a part that criticises and blocks our flow. When that shadow side takes over, we can find that we are left feeling
- Empty inside
- Obsessed with aging
- Co-dependant and become very needy
- Competitive which is a masculine trait
- A victim to circumstances
- Fixated on beauty, make up and make overs.
So let me tell you that there is nothing wrong with you, in fact the opposite everything is perfect as it is. It is just time to tap into that divine feminine essence and to start to exercise that muscle and let it flourish and shine. It is time to turn our backs on the shadows and to start looking to the light.
We do not need to hide our beauty with toxic make up, let the world see you as you truly are. Love yourself for who you are, from the inside.
Know that we are wired different to men. We are wired to use our intuition, to multi task, to see the fine details, our use of memory and social recognition. Men are wired to read maps and undertake spatial tasks and motor skills, they absorb information much faster and they can respond quicker. Basically men are logical thinkers and we are intuitive feelers.
So release your desire to be independent or needy and look to start filling your life with pleasure and fulfilment, do what feels good and makes you happy. Be open to you softness and know that you do not have to project personal power. Be open, sensitive and empowered and light yourself up from within.
A woman sets up the intimacy in a relationship by knowing how much of herself she is revealing. Do you repress your feelings? When you shut down he shuts down, this is the way it is. It is important to let him know what it is that you are really feeling. It is important to start to open yourself. Start to connect to your feeling centre, your sexual centre and learn to start to live from there.
If you would like any assistance to learn some easy and amazing practises to help you to let your feminine essence shine, then feel free to contact me for more information.
Until next time, seeing you always in Love, Light and Happiness